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Lent Begins Today

Today is Ash Wednesday and the beginning of Lent. Many Catholics use this time for fasting, repentance, prayer, and reflection. Lent is a time of improvement and a chance to regain self-control. Personally, I have never been very successful at keeping my Lenten sacrifices. In large part, it is usually because I am trying to give something up like chocolate or sweet treats. I always fail…miserably. This is also the time the Girl Scouts are delivering their cookies. Damn those Tagalongs! I acknowledge I have a problem with sugar.

Instead of giving something up during Lent, I try to do something that will benefit me in a spiritual way. I would like to be more prayerful. I’ve decided this Lent to start reading the Bible daily. I found a plan to read the Bible in one year. I discovered it on the blog Money Saving Mom. Initially, I will have to double up on days to catch up on my reading since the plan actually started the first of January. My Lenten journey begins today, and my Lenten promise is to be more prayerful by reading the Bible daily. What will you be doing during Lent?

“And the Spirit immediately drove him out into the wilderness. He was in the wilderness forty days, tempted by Satan; and he was with the wild beasts; and the angels waited on him. Now after John was arrested, Jesus came to Galilee, proclaiming the Good News of God, and saying, “The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God has come near; repent, and believe in the Good News.”

~ Mark 1:12-15

Happiness is receiving a gift card to one of my favorite places to shop. I received my “happy” on Friday from the 2nd grade class I am teaching at HGS. My wonderful students gave me a $40.00 gift card to Books-A-Million for Teacher’s Appreciation Week. I decided to maximize my book bucks by shopping on-line where the prices are cheaper and shipping is free.  I also had a $10.00 on-line coupon. Woo-Hoo! This bookaholic ended up ordering three new hardcover books and one paperback for $8.59. What a deal!

My purchase includes:  The Mysteries of Harris Burdick by Chris Van Allsburg, The Chronicles of Harris Burdick by Chris Van Allsburg (14 authors constribute their stories),  Inheritance by Christopher Paolini, and The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet’s Nest by Stieg Larrson.

Oh, Happy Day!

“Books are the perfect entertainment: no commercials, no batteries, hours of enjoyment for each dollar spent. What I wonder is why everybody doesn’t carry a book around for those inevitable dead spots in life.” ~ Stephen King

While looking around Pinterest this morning, I discovered a virtual bookshelf on a teacher’s blog called Shelfari. Immediately, I wanted one for my blog.  Unfortunately, after creating my Shelfari account, I realized I had no way of displaying it on MY blog. I could not figure out which widget would display it, or if I even have a widget with that capability. It was driving me crazy that I could not figure out how to add this to my blog. I WANTED a virtual bookshelf. I continued searching through my different widget options, and  finally discovered a similar widget called Goodreads.

Goodreads is an on-line site for readers. It shows what you are currently reading, what you have read, book recommendations, and so much more. I have installed the Goodreads widget to my blog. It is currently displaying the books I have read since starting my Reading Challenge. Check it out!

I love making new discoveries because they really make me happy.

 
A discovery is said to be an accident meeting a prepared mind.
~ Albert Szent-Gyorgyi

I have spent the last few hours creating my virtual bulletin boards on Pinterest. It is so FUN, and it’s making me totally HAPPY. This way of archiving my favorite things seems to speak to the INPUT theme of myself. Many thanks to my friend DD for taking the time to sit with me and explain how to use this website.

Check me out on Pinterest to see what’s up with The Kat.

For those of you following my Reading Challenge, I am currently reading 11/22/63 by Stephen King and We Are Their Heaven by Allison DuBois. My little Jedi and I are reading Floors by Patrick Carman.

“If you’re not living on the edge, you’re taking up too much room.” ~ John Mangus

    I read my first book of 2012, StrengthsFinder 2.0, which also included a 30 minute on-line assessment I took on the book’s companion website. Actually, if I decide to pursue this line of thinking, I will refer to this book many times over the course of the year. I chose this book first because I will be job hunting, and I thought it would give me some insight into what type of job would interest me. Of course, paying my bills interests me, too. The results are interesting, so I’ve decided to share them with you.

 Input – Restorative – Deliberative – Connectedness – Responsibility

     These are my top five themes of talent out of 34 different themes. Yes, StrengthsFinder measures talent instead of strength. They believe that talent is one of the areas needed to build true strength. According to the author, Tom Rath, “the purpose of StrengthsFinder 2.0 is not to anoint you with strengths – it simply helps you find the areas where you have the greatest potential to develop strengths.” Of course, you also need to add skills, knowledge, and practice to make it all work.

    I want to share briefly each of my theme descriptions (taken from my Insight and Action-Planning Guide):

Input:

crave to know more; often like to collect and archive all kinds of information (I love to collect books and quotes.)

 Job suggestions: in charge with acquiring new information each day, such as teaching, research, or journalism

 Restorative:

adept at dealing with problems; good at figuring out what is wrong and resolving it

 Job suggestions: seek roles to solve problems or my success depends on my ability to restore and resolve; might enjoy roles in medicine, consulting, computer programming, or customer service

 Deliberative:

best described by the serious care taken in making decisions or choices; anticipate the obstacles

 Job suggestions: consider work to provide advice or counsel; might be adept at legal work, crafting sound business deals, or ensuring compliance to regulations

Connectedness:

have faith in links between all things; believe there are few coincidences and that almost every event has a reason

 Job suggestions: consider roles – listen and counsel; can become adept at helping other people see connections and purpose in everyday occurrences

 Responsibility:

take psychological ownership of what they say and do; committed to stable values such as honesty and loyalty

 Job seeking suggestions: emphasize sense of responsibility when job hunting; disclose desire to be held fully accountable for success or failure of projects, intense dislike of unfinished work, and need to make things right when commitments aren’t met

     Out of all five of my themes, I’m glad Responsibility is at the bottom because one of the areas of my life I want to shed from this year is responsibilities. Granted much of what is said in the insight section of this theme fits my personality; however, it is the one I like the least.

     Both my on-line report and the book give strength insights, which tell you what makes you stand out, as well as ten “ideas for action” for each theme. For example, one of my “ideas for action” for Input is “deliberately increase your vocabulary; collect new words, and learn the meaning of each of them.” This is funny to me because before the New Year, I was looking at page-a-day calendars at Books-A-Million. One of the calendars I found intriguing was a “word-a-day” calendar. I was tempted, but ended up not buying it. The book and on-line resources provide additional information, which I will go back to throughout the year.

     Overall, the book is interesting and provides some helpful insight. I know the author wants to sell his book; however, I feel it would be awesome if you could pay a fee to just take the on-line test and use its on-line resources. Unfortunately, you have to buy the book to get the special code to take the on-line assessment.  My advice to anyone interested in StrengthsFinder 2.0: borrow the book to see what it is all about and peruse the website. If you are still interested after the tour of both resources, buy the book and take the test.

 On a side note: I am currently reading Dead as a Doornail by Charlaine Harris. This is a book in the series that the HBO television series True Blood is based on.

“Hide not your talents. They for use were made. What’s a sundial in the shade?”

~ Benjamin Franklin

Reading Challenge 2012

    My little guy and I like to go to Books-A-Million at least once a month to spend some quality time together. He orders chocolate milk and a box of gummy worms. I order a mocha latte. Generally, I read the monthly BookPage newspaper with reviews and advertisements for the newest books out in the bookstores. My little guy finds something interesting to read, which on many occasions I end up purchasing.  Although on this particular visit, he brought his allowance, was given a 50% coupon by a friend’s mother, and walked out with a brand new hardcover Star Wars Lego Visual Dictionary for $10.79. It is relaxing and fun, and we are spending time together. It is definitely one of my favorite things I like to do with my little guy.

    Yesterday afternoon, we went for one of our monthly dates. In the middle display alone, I saw a dozen books I wanted to read.  Thumbing through December’s issue of BookPage, I saw a few more titles I wanted to read.  It dawned on me, as I was sipping my mocha latte, that I wouldn’t be reading any new books until I started reading some of the books I already owned at home. And, those were not going to get read if I did not start making the time to read them.

    Reading makes me happy, so I am adding “reading more” as one of my resolutions for my happiness project.  My goal is to read at least two books per month. At first, I was going to put the books in order by month, but decided that may be too stressful. Instead, I just created a list of books, and I have separated them into categories. I love reading children’s literature, so quite a few titles fall in that category. Each month, I’ll decide what to read based on my mood, time constraints, movie releases based on books I’ve chosen, as well as release dates for books not yet published. Yes, even though there are many books on my book shelves I have not read, yet….there are a couple of books that are scheduled to come out this year that I want to read this year.

    One day I would love to start a book club. For the time being, I’ll have to put that idea on my Wish List. I’ve included my reading list for your viewing pleasure (click on the link below). I’ll keep you up to date throughout the year on my progress. I hope you decide to do more of the things you love throughout the year.

Happy New Year!

Reading List 2012

 A book is the only place in which you can examine a fragile thought without breaking it, or explore an explosive idea without fear it will go off in your face.  It is one of the few havens remaining where a man’s mind can get both provocation and privacy.  ~Edward P. Morgan

    The new year is fast approaching.  I’m getting excited because I like new beginnings.  However, before I embark on my litany of new year’s resolutions, I want to take a moment to revisit what worked and didn’t work for me in 2011.

    I started January 2011 off with taking an acting class with the actor Lance Nichols, who has a recurring role as Dr. Larry Williams on the HBO television series Treme.  February showed some promise in my pursuit of a new career as a freelancer. I booked my first background acting gig on Treme, worked as an office production assisistant on a Web Reality series, and signed up with a temp agency. I started working a temp job at WYES in March, which I absolutely loved. I love my WYES family! In addition to the WYES job,  April was also my debut as a zombie, another acting class with Lance, and camping with the Cub Scouts at Fountainebleu State Park. May was somber with the death of our guinea pig, Cinnamon, and the end of my temp job at WYES. However, June brought about a callback from an audition I had for Edible Arrangements, directing shifts at WYES for Art Auction, and no surgery on my liver. July was pretty relaxing. Spent a lot of time at home with Andrew, as well as doing things with family and friends. We even fostered a stray dog for two weeks. August was the start of a new school year and my happiness project.  I did NOT have to go back into the classroom. And, I started running again. I subbed at HGS a lot in September and started working another temp job at WYES. October was super busy with subbing at HGS during the day and directing the Showboat Auction at night. I also ran a 5K. November brought Thanksgiving, my evening with Stephen King, and my first speaking role in a short film called Hotcakes. Alas, December….subbed most of the month, celebrated a quiet Christmas with family, and son #1 came home for the holidays. Overall, a busy year, and these were just some of the highlights. I looked into possibilities, took opportunities, and made a few assessments. I NOW know what I don’t want to do;  however, I am still trying to figure out what I want to do, which brings me to a new year.

    2012 is my year to shed. Without sounding melodramatic, I believe if I can shed some things from my life, I will be able to focus on what I want to do with the rest of the time I have left on this earth. Below is my list of what I want to shed or get rid of in my life this year:

  • bad habits
  • weight
  • responsibilities
  • stuff
  • debt
  • fear

    I figure I should tackle the issues that are holding me back, so I can really maximize my life. Some of the things on my list I will shed naturally, while others will take work. Although I am grateful for my experiences in 2011, I’m excited about the prospects of 2012. Happy New Year!

Check out Gretchen Rubin’s blog about resolutions. http://www.happiness-project.com/

“Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson 

Happy Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving Day gives us the opportunity to pause and reflect upon our many blessings. It is a day for family, feasts, football, and fun. And, let us not forget the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade.

My day will be spent with my hubby, my little guy, and my parents. My airman son will be in Alaska. Sure, I’m disappointed he will not be with us for this day; however, he will be home in about three weeks.  I’m grateful he is safe, and the guys at his firehouse will prepare a feast for all of them to enjoy. Later today, we’ll skype with him.  Technology, at times,  can definitely be a blessing.

My Thanksgiving dinner will consist of fried turkey, stuffing, sweet potato casserole, green beans and mushrooms, rolls, cranberry sauce, and pecan pie. The best part of which I am eternally grateful…I don’t have to cook. I’m blessed that my mother and hubby will cook the dinner, and my mother-in-law baked the pie. Yum!

My dear friends, enjoy your day in whatever way you choose to spend it. Consider extending your gratitude attitude beyond today. Personally, I try to write on a daily basis at least  five things/events/people I’m grateful for in my gratitude journal. It helps me to focus on my blessings. Focusing on my blessings makes me a happier person.

Happy Thanksgiving!

“Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving.” ~ W.T. Purkiser

A huge serving of Middendorf’s fried thin catfish, a dollop of creamy coleslaw, a sore left hip flexor, and a tremendous sense of accomplishment were my rewards for running the Middendorf’s Manchac Run on October 15th. I had been training since August 1st to become a 30 minute runner. Becoming a 30 minute runner meant running 3 miles,which meant I could run a 5K.  And, I did it…in 32:49. My happiness bucket had definitely been filled to the brim.

Honestly, at first I was a little bummed with my time because I really wanted to finish in 30 minutes. However, the race included something I did not prepare for during my training…a bridge.    

Moments before the race started, I saw my ex-step instructor and stopped to chat. During out conversation, I asked her about the race course. Imagine my surprise (my face resembled Janet Leigh as she was about to be stabbed in Psycho) when I learned the course involved crossing the old Manchac bridge, not once, but twice. For a split second, I thought about running back to my car. All my training up to this point had been done in my subdivision on flat ground.

The race director called all runners and walkers to the starting line.  The more I looked at bridge, the more it looked like a mountain. The national anthem played. I gave my hubby and my doggie, Comet, a quick good-bye kiss, and I was off.

Of course, the bridge was at the very beginning of the race. Going over it at the beginning was not too bad. I was slow. Once I got over the bridge and reached flat ground, I got my groove on and found my pace. At 1.5 miles, runners had to turn back around and run for the finish. There was a drink station at the turning point. I grabbed a cup of grape Powerade from a cheerful volunteer, took a swig, swished, and spit. The remainder went into the garbage can. I made the turn, feeling the runner’s high. Life was GREAT! I was on the other side of the road observing everyone on the side before the 1.5 mile split. EGO reared its ugly head…for a moment, for up ahead was the bridge, and this time it was not so easy to go over. Ahead of me was Frank, a 76 year old man I had met at NOTC’s Sneaker Speaker Series a couple of years ago. He was my motivation. I focused on him instead of the bridge. Literally, I felt like I was running in slow motion. I refused to walk even though I probably could have walked faster. Finally, I made it to the top of the bridge. Frank had finished descending and was not too far from the finish line. I started my descent, careful not to go too fast or get too sloppy. My left hip flexor started to feel tender. Once on flat ground again, I sprinted for the finish. My smile was wide, really wide. I FINISHED. So, even though I did not finish in 30 minutes, my time was not really too bad considering I had to run over a bridge, not once, but twice. I felt like a winner.  

“Life begets life. Energy creates energy. It is by spending oneself that one becomes rich.”   ~ Sarah Bernhardt

Weighing In

Frustrated…that is the word that best describes me at the moment. Frustration does not equal happiness; however, it can motivate oneself to make a change or two. What is the source of my frustration? Well, my weight. My goal weight on September 26th was 140 pounds. I weighed in Monday morning to the tune of 144 pounds. UGH! Now, I have not been eating like a sparrow, but I also haven’t been eating like a Spartan. All month my weight has fluctuated between 141 to 144 pounds. I find if I exercise and have a good poop before I weigh in, I get a much better result. Needless to say, I had neither this past Monday. So, I have decided to abandon a goal weight until I can really make a commitment to change my eating habits.

I eat out of anxiety and my peak time seems to be in the afternoon after picking up my little guy from school. The key is getting back to my original resolutions. Part of not keeping my resolutions in the “eating better” department is not being a good time manager. I’m working on being a better time manager. I have been drinking more water. Getting up earlier has not been a problem since school is back in session. Going to bed on time has also not been a problem since I have been working every day.

While my weight has not decreased, my running has increased. This has brought much happiness to my life. I have been moving every day. I am running at least three days a week whether it is in the heat, fog, or rain. Today, I registered for the Middendorf’s Manchac Run, which will be held in October. It is a 5K (3.1 miles). This week I am walking for 2 minutes and running for 8 minutes…repeating this three times for a total of 30 minutes. Of course, this does not include my 10 minute walking warm-up, cool-down, and stretch. Next week, I am walking for 1 minute and running for 9 minutes…repeating this three times for a total of 30 minutes. The following week I will be running 30 minutes with no walk breaks. My goal is simply to finish this race in 30 minutes. The only exercise resolution I have not been keeping up with is strength training two days a week. It has been hard fitting it in; however, I know it is important. Again, being a better time manager will help with this resolution, as well.  

Even though I am not hitting the mark on all my resolutions, I’m still happy with myself for making the attempt. It really is a journey. The real goal is to find as much happiness along the way.  If anything, this happiness project has made me rediscover the joy I get from running.  Running puts things in perspective for me. This is one resolution I’m trying very hard not to break.

“Remind yourself that a run will make you feel better mentally and emotionally.”         ~ Howard J. Rankin

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