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It is the 17th of July and time for another update for my Jumpstart July Challenge.

HABITS

Wake up at 5:00 AM. I wish I could tell you I wrote down the time I woke up each morning since my last update, but I only remembered to write down Monday – today. Thanks to Bailey, I woke up at 4:40 am on Monday, 5:09 am on Tuesday, 4:50 am on Wednesday, and 5:06 today. The roughest mornings to get up were Wednesday (Tooty had tummy trouble all night, so every 1 1/2 – 2 hours, I was bringing him outside to potty) and today (Bailey was frightened by thunder and lightning, so at 11:15 last night, I had to give her 1/2 a sedative tablet and sit up with her until it kicked in). However, as tired as I was, I refused to miss my morning walks.

Walk at least 30 minutes daily, preferably outside. I am still on a walking streak. My walk begins between 5:40 am and 6:15 am with 6:00 am being the sweet spot. No phone on these daily walks, except today (walked on treadmill). The last couple of days I have not seen any bunnies on my walking route, but I have heard roosters crowing. Saturday evening was the only evening I put my workout clothes on my bathroom counter. I need to write a note to remind myself.

Here are my times for each walk. On Monday, I increased my time by about 6 minutes because I added more road to cover on my walk. However, I was lost in thought and missed my turn on Tuesday, so I went to the entrance of my subdivision to make up some minutes. Oh, well. Yesterday, my right knee was feeling weird; not painful but a slight twinge under my kneecap; therefore, I went back to the route and time I walked from the end of last week. This morning I walked on the treadmill for 30 minutes and decreased my speed. The feeling was still there but not as sharp as yesterday. I guess too fast, too far, too soon.

  • 07/11 (43:43)
  • 07/12 (43:20)
  • 07/13 (45:52)
  • 07/14 (53:53)
  • 07/15 (50:30)
  • 07/16 (45:54)
  • 07/17 (30:01) – treadmill

Drink more water. I have NOT been consistent with my water intake. And, I have NOT tracked my water consumption.

Mindful eating. I have avoided dairy, gluten, and added sugar 4 of the 7 days. I did up my veggie consumption and drank my protein shake with tumeric for breakfast (Monday-today).

Keep a JOY journal. I made NO attempt with this habit. AGAIN!

Write a daily to-do list. I continue to write a to-do list daily; however, for the past 7 days, I have written it after my walk, shower, and breakfast. I think I prefer this time. Yesterday, for the first time this month, I completed EVERY task on my list. However, I did not designate times to complete the tasks which I think would help with my daily routine.

Track book spending. I continue recording my book spending. I was not supposed to purchase any books for myself since my last update. On July 13th, I used my free book credit ($5.00) from Thrift Books (before it expired) to buy a used book, Bloodsucking Friends, by Christopher Moore. It cost me 21 cents (for the tax; shipping paid by credit card points), and my year-to-date spending for 2025 is now $621.85.

Declutter/Chores (schedule). I completed chores and did NO decluttering; and, I did NOT create a schedule.

Creative Time/Aims (schedule). I wrote this blog post (8/25) which counts toward my 25 posts I want to write in 2025; however, still NO schedule for scrapbooking or completing my aims for this year. HOWEVER, I did visit the Hammond Farmers & Artisans Market on Saturday morning (2/5 times; #23 on my 25 for 2025 list), and I scheduled a reservation yesterday for my hubby and me to visit the English Tea Room in Covington on August 2nd (#22 on my 25 for 2025 list).

Monitor progress (habits/routines). Out of all my habits and routines I am working on this month, I consistently monitor my daily walks.

Not really sure how to rate the past 7 days. I continue to makes strides with a couple of habits but flounder or have nothing to show with other habits. Maybe I am tackling too many habits at one time? By the next update, I want to (1) do better about monitoring the time I wake up each morning 2) walk a day or two on the treadmill at a slower pace to see if this helps with my right knee issue (3) do better with increasing and keeping track of my water intake (4) stop eating by 6:00 PM (5) start my JOY journal (6) continue my daily to-do list with designating times to complete tasks (7) limit the number of books to buy at the Friends of the Library (FOTL) store this weekend (8/9) start creating schedules for decluttering/chores and creative time/aims (10) continue monitoring habits.

ROUTINES

My morning, weekly, and evening routines have still not been established. Maybe instead of establishing all three routines at once, I focus on my morning routine? I already have some semblance of how I want my mornings to flow and there is a framework of a morning routine, so I feel like it will not take much effort to solidify it.

ATOMIC HABITS by James Clear

Our group, who is reading Atomic Habits, completed Chapter 4 on Sunday, 13 July.

Here are some takeaways from Atomic Habits that resonated with me from that chapter that focused on the Habits Scorecard.

1 – There are no good habits or bad habits. There are only effective habits. That is, effective at solving problems. (page 65)

2 – The first step to changing bad habits is to be on the lookout for them…Hearing your bad habits spoken aloud makes the consequences seem more real. (page 66)

3 – The process of behavior change always starts with awareness. (page 66) I love that “a habit” could be considered good for one person, but bad for another. It might be effective for both people, but the outcomes will be what is negative or positive.

I actually use the Point-and-Calling strategy when I check to make sure the doors in my house are locked before leaving to go somewhere. Then, I do it again to make sure my garage door has gone down after pulling out the garage while still in my driveway.

As I wrap up this post, I am suffering with hayfever and feeling like I need a nap. I feel like a zombie. I am trying not to be too hard on myself for not accomplishing everything I wanted to accomplish with this challenge since my last update. I must remind myself that I have responsibilities for more than just myself. Since my last update, Andrew and I took care of the title transfer, so he now owns my mother-in-law’s vehicle. We also had a fantastic day hanging out afterwards. I also filled out paperwork and got fingerprinted, so I can volunteer at my friend Kathryn’s two book fairs this year at Holy Ghost School. I am keeping up with chores around the house, taking care of my dogs, walking and reading daily, as well as live streaming twice a week on my Youtube channel. Also, I am spending quality time with my husband whenever possible which I think is important. Spending time with my family and friends is time well-spent.  Dear reader, what have you been up to the last 7 days of July? Happiness!

“One of our greatest challenges in changing habits is maintaining awareness of what we are actually doing.” ~ James Clear, Atomic Habits

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It is the 10th of July and time for an update on my challenge for this month. I chose 10 habits I want to build and 3 routines I want to cultivate in my life along with diving into Atomic Habits by James Clear for the second time.

HABITS

Wake up at 5:00 AM. Since the first of the month, I have been getting up between 4:30 AM and 5:30 AM. I have not had to set my alarm clock because my dog Bailey wakes me up, and it is generally before 5:00 AM.

Walk at least 30 minutes daily, preferably outside. I am on a streak with my walking. I have walked every day up to this point, and each walk has been outside in my neighborhood. I am also leaving my phone at home which allows me to gain some clarity with my thoughts and feelings while enjoying the natural world. I love seeing the squirrels chase each other and listening to the birds sing their songs. Yesterday, I spotted a brown and white bunny hopping under a bush. Today, I saw three bunnies (one in my front yard).

Here are my times for each walk. As you can see on Monday, my time increased by 10 minutes because I added more road to cover on my walk.

  • 07/01 (35:12)
  • 07/02 (33:49)
  • 07/03 (34:25)
  • 07/04 (35:26)
  • 07/05 (34:18)
  • 07/06 (32:54)
  • 07/07 (42:44)
  • 07/08 (43:47)
  • 07/09 (44:00)
  • 07/10 (43:48)

Drink more water. I have increased my water intake by 2 cups as a result of walking daily.

Mindful eating. I have avoided dairy, gluten, and added sugar 7 of the 10 days.

Keep a JOY journal. I made no attempt with this habit.

Write a daily to-do list. Writing my to-do list is the first task I do after letting Bailey out to potty and taking my reflux meds.

Track book spending. I record my spending when I work on my financial tasks for the week (usually Sunday morning). On July 1st, I bought Picnic in Provence: A Memoir with Recipes by Elizabeth Bard from Amazon to read this month for the Cozy Cottage Book Club. It cost $21.03, and my year-to-date spending for 2025 is $621.64.

Declutter/Chores (schedule). I completed chores and did minimal decluttering; however, I have not created a schedule, yet.

Creative Time/Aims (schedule). I wrote this blog post which counts toward my 25 posts I want to write in 2025; however, I have not created a schedule, yet, to incorporate scrapbooking time or to complete my remaining aims on my list.

Monitor progress (habits/routines). I am currently monitoring my daily walks and water intake. I also weighed myself on July 1st (162.5 pounds) for informational purposes. I started writing down when I woke up each morning, but only documented the first 2 days and forgot about keeping track in my notebook. I did jot down a few notes regarding my morning routine.

Despite not being perfect and not hitting all my goals for July in the first 10 days, I am proud of my progress. Honestly, I am in no rush, so I do not mind the slow progression towards building sustainable habits. By the next update, I want to (1) monitor the time I wake up each morning 2) put my workout clothes on my bathroom counter the night before, start my walk at 6:00 AM, and add more time to my walk (3) increase my water intake (4) eat more veggies and drink my protein shake with tumeric for breakfast (5) start my JOY journal (6) continue my daily to-do list with designating times to complete tasks (7) NO book buying for myself by next update (8/9) start creating schedules for decluttering/chores and creative time/aims (10) continue monitoring habits.

ROUTINES

My morning, weekly, and evening routines have not been established, yet. I have been focusing more on my habits than my routines up to this point. As I mentioned, I am keeping notes about my morning routine. My one stumbling block with my morning routine is my cell phone. It is also my house phone, so I do like to check it first thing in the morning in the event I have received any calls or texts from my dad, sister, or friends (especially my friends who live alone). I need to put it away after that morning check, so I am not tempted to start scrolling. If I want to scroll, I need to schedule it.

ATOMIC HABITS by James Clear

I have created a schedule for reading and discussing Atomic Habits. A group of us start a new chapter or chapters every Monday. Dear reader, if you want to join us, you are welcome to read along with us or read at your own pace and jump into the discussion on my Discord whenever you want to share your thoughts. We completed Chapters 1-3 on Sunday, 06 July.

Here are some takeaways from Atomic Habits that resonated with me from the first three chapters.

  1. Create Systems since systems are the processes that lead to achieving goals.
  1. Identity-Based Habits are habits that become part of our identity.

“Who do we wish to become?” a) Decide the type of person you want to be. b) Prove it to yourself with small wins.

  1. The Habit Loop consists of cue (notice the reward), craving (want the reward), response (obtain the reward), reward (gold star). Of course, the gold star is for good habits.

I love the examples on pages 52-53 that illustrate the habit loop. I can relate to the stumbling block example. Social media has a way of sucking me into the Twilight Zone when I am overwhelmed or hit a stumbling block, so I try hard to avoid it when I am feeling that way. Not always successful. I’m excited to dive into the Four Laws of Behavior Change.

I am pleased with the results of the first 10 days of my challenge, especially since I am changing my mindset on how I spend my time. Planning my time each week has allowed me to accomplish essential tasks while also fitting in some fun. I am currently participating in the Summerween Readathon, so I am setting aside more time to read for that event. I also spent time on Monday getting paperwork together and researching information for the title transfer of my mother-in-law’s vehicle to my son Andrew. That took up a whole afternoon. I have also been a social butterfly this week meeting up with friends and spending time with my hubby and my father. I am in a good place right now, and I am excited about taking the next steps for this challenge. Dear reader, what have you been up to in the first 10 days of July? Happiness!

“The most effective way to change your habits is to focus not on what you want to achieve, but on who you wish to become.” ~ James Clear, Atomic Habits

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Happy July 1st, dear reader! Today, I am jumpstarting July to shake my life up a bit (in a good way). My life was derailed two years ago due to one personal crisis after another. Unfortunately, I let a few things fall by the wayside, but I am ready and excited to get my life back on track. This month, I want to focus on building good habits and cultivating realistic routines, so I can accomplish the aims on my 25 for 2025 List and restart my hobbies (other than reading) by the end of this year.

I have been wanting to reread Atomic Habits by James Clear, so when my friend Lee mentioned on a recent episode of Saturday Morning Momentum that she was reading it and having a hard time getting into it, I asked her if she wanted me to buddy read it with her, and she said YES. Therefore, I started with the introduction today. We will be reading and discussing it on my Discord if anyone is interested in joining us for the next couple of months.

I have created two lists, one for the habits I want to build and the other for the routines I want to cultivate in July. Some of my habits will be incorporated into my daily routines. I will play around with my routines this month since I want them to be realistic and manageable.

HABITS

  • Wake up at 5:00 AM
  • Walk at least 30 minutes daily, preferably outside
  • Drink more water
  • Mindful eating
  • Keep a JOY journal
  • Write a daily to-do list
  • Track book spending
  • Declutter/Chores (schedule)
  • Creative Time/Aims (schedule)
  • Monitor progress (habits/routines)

ROUTINES

  • Morning Routine
  • Weekly Routine
  • Evening Routine

In addition to rereading Atomic Habits, I plan on referring to ideas and strategies suggested in the following books which I would highly recommend to readers who want to work on habits, routines, decluttering, organizing, or making time for creative pursuits and projects.

  • The 5AM Club by Robin Sharma
  • Tranquility by Tuesday by Laura Vanderkam
  • Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin
  • Outer Order, Inner Calm by Gretchen Rubin

Now that I am putting my July plans out into the world, dear reader, I hope you will help me stay accountable. I plan to update you periodically throughout the month. My friend Kathryn Huggett, who is a health coach, created two accountability trackers for her team that I am using to keep track of my daily walks and water intake. I am using a regular notebook to monitor everything else I will be doing. I am excited to see what I will accomplish this month. Happiness!

“Your jumpstart moment is critical. Start simple but simply start.” ~ Bronkar Lee

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As mentioned in my previous post, I decided to track my time for an additional week to get a clearer picture of how I am spending my time. Therefore, this analysis is from the week of 17 January – 23 January. During this week, I worked 32.5 hours at school and devoted 54 hours to sleep. This left me with 81.5 hours to spend in other areas of my life.

Therefore, how did I spend those remaining 81.5 hours?

  • Morning Routine (T-F): 5.75 hours 
  • Morning Routine (M/SAT-SUN): 3 hours
  • Travel to and from work (T-TH): 2.25 hours
  • Travel to and from other places: 4.25 hours
  • Afternoon Routine (M-TH): .5 of an hour (pet care for Tooty and cats, unpacking lunch box and school bag)
  • Chores: 11 hours (loading dishwasher, laundry, floors, washing out litter pan, bathrooms)
  • Walk (20 for 2022 Challenge): 2.75 hours
  • Read (includes #Read21in21 Challenge): 5.5 hours
  • Instagram Post (#yearofjoy2022): 1 hour
  • Goodreads: .5 of an hour 
  • Meals: 3.75 hours 
  • Evening Routine: 3.75 hours (shower; take Tooty out before bed)
  • Blog: 5.25 hours (Sunday-write, edit, revise, publish)
  • Content Creation: 13.75 hours (collaboration with Kelsi-YouTube)
  • TV Shows/Movies/YouTube: 2.5 hours
  • Napping: 0 hours
  • Social Events/Errands: 7.75 hours
  • Hanging out with Andrew: 1 hour

As a result, 74.25 hours were spent with family/friends, walking, creating content, fulfilling commitments/life responsibilities, and completing household tasks. My time bank still had 7.25 hours, and those additional hours were spent on other activities, such as playing Trivia Crack, interacting on social media (FB and Instagram), texting, phone calls, checking email, time-tracking, or puttering around the house.

It was an unusual, but gratifying, week since I was off Monday instead of Friday (MLK Day), played Pokeno on Monday evening (as a sub), attended Elton John’s concert with Shelly on Wednesday evening (original date 06/2020), worked from home on Friday (weather day), and did a livestream with Kelsi (Misery) on Sunday.

Clearly, the two weeks I tracked were not exactly the same. I had 2.5 extra hours this week than last week. So, on average I have about 6 hours a week to spend on my goals for 2022. Compared to last year when I had 19 hours, that is not very much time. Nevertheless, I am not discouraged. Last year, we had stricter COVID restrictions, so I was home more. After today, I do not have any social events scheduled for February or March. I am also participating in Frugal February again this year since it was a huge success last year. Therefore, my extra hours may increase considerably. In the next few weeks, I am considering keeping track of the time spent on items from my 22 for 2022 list.

There you have it, dear reader. Two weeks of time tracking, and I am a bit wiser about where my time is going, so I can adjust my schedule to be more productive and reach my goals for the year. It is also clear to me that I cannot do EVERYTHING I want to do at the same time. I will need to protect my extra time for the next two months and finish the first quarter of the year strong. In the meantime, I need to get ready to leave for Canton, Mississippi where I am attending an Audition Intensive Workshop today. Happiness!

“We must use time as a tool, not as a couch.” ~ John F. Kennedy

Note: Photo at the top is by Towfiqu barbhuiya on Pexels.com.

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During the week of 10 January, I participated in Laura Vanderkam’s Time-Tracking Challenge. Laura hosts this annual challenge in January, so it is no coincidence that “time track in January” is a goal for this year (#1 on my 22 for 2022 list). I find time tracking beneficial, especially when I am feeling overwhelmed or need to make some changes, and 2022 is all about CHANGE.

My week started with 168 hours on Monday 10 January at 5:00 in the morning. Two categories that took up a huge chunk of my time were work (instructional coach at a PreK2-8th school) and sleep. 32 hours were spent at work and 56 hours were spent sleeping. This left me with 80 hours to spend on other tasks or activities during the week.

So, how did I spend the remaining 80 hours of my week?

  • Morning Routine (M-TH): 7.25 hours 
  • Morning Routine (F-SUN): 2.25 hours

My morning routine consists of pet care for one dog (Sophie crossed the rainbow bridge on 07 January), two cats, and a snake, personal care for myself, making coffee, preparing breakfast (eat at school), preparing my lunch, unloading the dishwasher, posting on FB (Monday/Wednesday). Sometimes, I may transfer a load of laundry that washed overnight into the dryer or do another quick task.

  • Travel to and from work (M-TH): 2.75 hours
  • Travel to and from other places: 6.5 hours
  • Afternoon Routine (M-TH): 1 hour (pet care for Tooty and cats, unpacking lunch box and school bag)
  • Chores: 7.75 hours (loading dishwasher, laundry, floors, getting my scrapbook room in order)
  • Walk (20 for 2022 Challenge): 2.75 hours
  • Read (includes #Read21in21 Challenge): 5.5 hours
  • Instagram Post (#yearofjoy2022): 1.25 hours
  • Goodreads: .25 of an hour 

Gretchen Rubin created the walking (2020) and reading (2021) challenges which I enjoyed participating in both years that I continue to incorporate them in my daily routine. Both activities increase my happiness, provide a sense of satisfaction, and bring more joy into my life. I am all about more JOY in 2022.

  • Meals: 4 hours 
  • Evening Routine: 3.25 hours (shower; take Tooty out before bed)
  • Blog: 3.5 hours (Sunday-write, edit, revise, publish)
  • TV Shows/Movies/YouTube: 5.25 hours
  • Napping: 2.25 hours
  • Social Events/Errands: 9.5 hours

My social events for this week included a delightful dinner with my friend Roxanne on Monday evening, Connie Kittok’s art show and dinner in Ponchatoula with Andrew on Thursday evening, shopping and lunch with Andrew on Friday morning/afternoon, and a wedding with my hubby on Friday evening. Before Andrew and I went shopping, I went to the post office to mail a small package to my friend Rita (lives in England) and stopped at PJ’s coffee to pick up a sausage, egg, and cheese biscuit and a mocha latte.

As a result, 50.5 hours were spent on life responsibilities, 9.25 hours were spent traveling, and 5.25 hours were spent watching television shows, movies, or YouTube for a total of 65 hours.

This left me with 15 hours left over in my weekly bank of hours. Of my remaining time, I spent 3.5 hours of those hours hanging out with either Andrew or Barry, Jr. at home. My birthday was on Tuesday, and I wanted to read and respond to all of my beautiful birthday wishes, so I spent 6.75 hours of the week reading and responding to texts, emails, and FB messages, opening and reading birthday cards that came in the mail, opening gifts, as well as talking to family and friends on the phone. I absolutely do NOT feel badly about spending my time this way because it brought me so much joy to receive so many kind messages, and it was a wonderful way to enjoy the week. The remaining 4.75 hours was spent playing Trivia Crack, scrolling through social media (mainly FB), texting, email, time-tracking, or puttering around the house.

So, what did I learn during this Time-Tracking Challenge, and how do I use this week’s data?

Clearly, between this being my birthday week and socializing a bunch with family and friends throughout the week, I did not have a great deal of spare time to devote to my aims for 2022. With that being said, I still had 4.75 hours that I could have used to complete a module in my blogging course or complete the journaling for one of the pages in Andrew’s Ireland scrapbook. I could come up with a litany of reasons as to why I chose scrolling over scribing, but they would be excuses instead of legitimate reasons. Honestly, I did not make that time a priority. And, it is not to say that all of the time was spent on mindless phone play. “Puttering around the house” is not necessarily wasted time. It is the time where I squeeze those little tasks in between major tasks, such as going through the mail, writing a check, putting a book back on the shelf, or taking out the trash.

However, I am only working four days a week this year. Last year at this time, my time-tracking log showed I worked 43.5 hours. This week, I logged 32 hours. Instead of working, I spent Friday of this year running errands and spending time with Andrew (shopping and lunch in Mandeville). Part of the shopping experience was buying a gift for the wedding; however, Andrew was free to hang out and keep me company on the way to the store to buy the gift, so we made it a day with more shopping at American Eagle and Barnes & Noble and ate lunch at La Madeleine. It is a bit of a drive, so we enjoyed lots of conversation on the drive there and back.

Although, I would love for my Fridays to be devoted strictly towards my aims for the year, it is not realistic. That is not to say, I have not used my Fridays to write a blog post or work on content for a video I am doing with Kelsi. The reality is I use my Fridays to schedule doctors’ appointments or other appointments, catch up on household chores, run errands, or deal with the unexpected that crops up that day or I do not have the energy to deal with earlier in the week. Sometimes, I just want to have a day off and do nothing in particular, especially if I have a full weekend ahead of me.

Not surprisingly, I decided to time track an additional week, dear reader. I am trying to get a clearer picture of where my time is going and the best way to schedule my time by adjusting my morning and evening routines during the work week as well as my routines on the weekend. I will be posting that analysis shortly. As always, I am a work in progress and moving slowly, but steadily to making change to live my best life. Happiness!

“Change isn’t easy, it takes time.” ~ Caroline Kennedy

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In order to get back on track and reFOCUS on my goals for the remainder of the year, I tracked my time for two weeks (week of 02 August and week of 09 August). Both of these weeks started out with 168 hours on Monday at midnight. Since school has reconvened after being on summer break for the last two months, my day job (instructional coach at a PreK2-8th school) and sleep take up the bulk of my time. However, the hours at my day job have been reduced this school year; I am currently working four days per week as opposed to five days when I tracked my time back in January. The reduction in work hours will ultimately allow me to spend more time on creating content and embarking on a new career path.

Week 1: 02 August – 08 August

During this week, I worked 32.5 hours at school and devoted 52.75 hours to sleep. This left me with 82.75 hours to spend in other areas of my life.

That being so, how did I spend those remaining 82.75 hours?

  • Morning Routine: 11.25 hours
  • Travel (to/from work; to/from other places): 4.75 hours
  • Family/Fur Babies/Friends: 9.75 hours
  • Chores: 7.25 hours
  • Exercise: 5 hours
  • Errands: 4.5 hours
  • Read: 3 hours
  • Meals: 5 hours
  • Content Creation (blog; collaboration with Kelsi-YouTube): 20.75 hours
  • Evening Routine: 3 hours

Therefore, 74.25 hours were spent with family/friends, exercising, creating content, fulfilling commitments/life responsibilities, and completing household tasks. My time bank still had 8.5 hours, and those additional hours were spent on other activities, such as playing games (Trivia Crack/Words with Friends), interacting on social media (FB and Instagram), texting, phone calls, checking email, time-tracking, watching television/movies/YouTube videos, or puttering around the house.

Week 2: 09 August – 15 August

During this week, I worked 33.5 hours at school and devoted 51 hours to sleep. This left me with 83.5 hours to spend in other areas of my life.

In that case, how did I spend those remaining 83.5 hours?

  • Morning Routine: 11 hours
  • Travel (to/from work; to/from other places): 6.75 hours
  • Family/Fur Babies/Friends: 8.75 hours
  • Chores: 6.5 hours
  • Exercise: 4.5 hours
  • Errands: 8 hours
  • Read: 3 hours
  • Meals: 3.5 hours
  • Content Creation (blog; collaboration with Kelsi-YouTube): 8.75 hours
  • Evening Routine: 2.25 hours

Therefore, 63 hours were spent with family/friends, exercising, creating content, fulfilling commitments/life responsibilities, and completing household tasks. My time bank still had 20.5 hours, and those additional hours were spent on other activities, such as playing games (Trivia Crack/Words with Friends), interacting on social media (FB and Instagram), texting, phone calls, checking email, time-tracking, watching television/movies/YouTube videos, or puttering around the house.


Clearly, no two weeks are exactly the same. And, all the banked hours are not entirely spent on effortless fun. Some of that extra time gets spent on small tasks that just take a minute or two, such as writing a grocery list, a message in a card, or a check for a bill. I may be purchasing an item or researching ingredients for a meal online. I might spend a few minutes clearing off the kitchen table, reshelving books that I recently finished reading, or snapping a picture for my Instagram gratitude project. With that being said, if I take the average of both weeks, I realistically have 14.5 hours that I could be using to complete courses that I have purchased, scrapbook, read more, or strength-train (fitness). It is now up to me to prioritize my time which will ultimately help me achieve my goals. Additionally, I must adhere to that scheduled time that also includes built-in wiggle room.

Why is wiggle room important? You just never know when something unexpected will require your attention, such as getting a call back for a play you auditioned for earlier in the week. Yep, I auditioned at the Columbia Theatre for The House on Haunted Hill this past Monday evening. Surprise! I got a call back for Wednesday evening. I auditioned strictly for the experience since I had a conflict the second weekend of the show. While it would have been terrific to be a part of this production, I did not get cast which is fine because Kelsi and I have oodles planned for September and October. Happiness Boost!

Thankfully, I have only one commitment after work this week, and it is to spend a wonderful evening with my fabulous book club friends to discuss Mexican Gothic. Therefore, for the remainder of today, I will schedule my upcoming week and create a to-do list of the tasks that I need to accomplish before this weekend. As for my running schedule, I’m on Week #4: Walk 10 minutes (warm up). Run 2 minutes. Walk 1 minute (repeat this 3-minute session 5 times). Walk 10 minutes (cool down). My goal for this week is to follow this routine at least three days this week. On the other days, I will walk at least 20 minutes to keep up my walking streak and try to incorporate some strength training and biking. I did not strength train or bike this past week.

Life is unpredictable, dear reader, but that is what makes it so interesting. My hubby, Andrew, and I enjoyed breakfast this morning at Cracker Barrel, and I treasured every minute we were together just being together. I’m excited to start a new week, especially one that is practically a blank slate. Enjoy your Sunday afternoon by spending your time doing something that boosts your happiness and adds value to your life. Happiness!

“When you feed your soul by spending time on things you love, that you are excited about, your enthusiasm becomes contagious.” ~ Rita Davenport

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In last week’s blog post, I wrote about honoring the time on the schedule. This week, I want to piggyback on that post with a few thoughts from a recent episode of Before Breakfast with Laura Vanderkam. Personally, I love when I discover that one of the strategies that I am effectively using to become a better time manager is already incorporating another time management strategy, and I just did not have a name for it. Of course, knowing my tendency (Questioner) and learning more about myself every day helped me to incorporate that strategy.

Laura Vanderkam recommends establishing a daily “must win” and then win at it. She picked up this time management strategy from Ashley Whillans, an assistant professor at Harvard Business School. This strategy of focusing on a daily must win comes from her recently published book, Time Smart: How to Reclaim Your Time and Live a Happier Life. Basically, get clear on the task that MUST get done per day, commit to it, accomplish it, and win at it. This doesn’t mean that only one task will be completed on the scheduled day, but it does mean that scheduling a must do will help with getting more accomplished.

Imagine my delight while listening to this episode and discovering that by managing by task, I’m also managing my time and winning at it. This is exactly the approach that I have been taking each Sunday morning when I create my weekly schedule. Some days there is only one task/activity scheduled in the afternoon/evening because I know something will crop up. For example, two weeks in a row, my hubby stayed in Hammond and wanted me to come meet him for an early dinner. One afternoon, it was on a Tuesday when I had an improv hangout scheduled. Last week, it was on Wednesday when I have my weekly RCIA class. This feels like a double win when I can get more done than what I have scheduled for any given day. Believe me, dear reader, I am never without things I can do when my plans fall through or I find myself with extra time. I keep a running list of tasks, projects, or activities for when that free time presents itself. Also, extra time means more time to read or scrapbook if I choose to just relax instead.

Tips from Laura Vanderkam: Win at Your Daily Must Win

  • Manage by task and not time.
  • Create short to-do lists.
  • Identify immediate priority for the day.
  • Designate the day’s “must do” and commit to win it.

With immense pleasure, I have completed today’s “must win” by writing this blog post and publishing it for your enjoyment, dear reader. It is time for Andrew and I to visit one of my favorite places, Books-A-Million, where I hope to purchase a mocha latte and Stephen King’s newest publication Later. Enjoy the rest of your weekend which may be your daily “must win.” Happiness!

“Anyone can pack a schedule. I think it takes some real discipline and a sense of one’s value to say, ‘No, my time is valuable to me, and I am going to spend it on the highest-value activities that I have determined are important for me and the people I care about.’” ~ Laura Vanderkam

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Today is the last day of February. Yes, you read that right, dear reader! Another month of the new year is quickly coming to an end, leaving me with one more month of the first quarter of this year to complete or continue working on goals chosen from my 21 for 2021 list. On the whole, I am delighted with my progress. Some tasks are one and done while others are monthly and yearly goals that are helping me develop better habits.

Scheduling my time has been an effective strategy for me to meet my goals. Each week, I get better at scheduling the tasks or activities that I want to engage in during my extra time. It boils down to making decisions on the best use of my time. In fact, just last week, I had to come to terms with not having enough time or energy to declutter and organize the rooms assigned for this quarter. I put that goal on the back burner until I can finish with a weekly commitment that will end at the Easter Vigil. Scheduling my time is becoming a good habit for me and helping me to become a better time manager. With that being said, I still encounter hiccups along the way, and when I do, I adjust my schedule. Some hiccups are out of my control, but some of them are self-inflicted. I experienced both this week. Regardless of the occasional hiccup, honoring the time on the schedule is important.

My first hiccup was not receiving my last musical from Netflix on Monday. Apparently, the post office is having some hiccups of their own. Anyway, I had scheduled Monday evening to watch it. When it did not arrive, I used that 133 minutes to read and take care of other personal tasks. The movie is still MIA which means I cannot complete my marathon until Tuesday when the copy I ordered from Amazon arrives. Therefore, instead of scrapbooking this Tuesday evening, I’ll be watching Across the Universe. Thankfully, Kelsi and I will have our chat about musicals this upcoming weekend, so I’ll have plenty of time to get it viewed and reviewed beforehand.

My second hiccup occurred yesterday. I had scheduled working on my blogging course from 6:30-8:30 in the morning. Creating an ABOUT page for my blog was my assignment. (Please click on ABOUT in the previous sentence, check it out, and give me some feedback. It can always be changed and updated at anytime.) Even though I already had this page on my blog, I needed to update it. It was almost 11:00 in the morning by the time I finished. I spent two and a half additional hours on my course than what I had allotted on my schedule. I had other items on my list that needed to be accomplished. They included grocery shopping, dusting, cleaning the master bathroom, laundry, cleaning the other bathroom (leftover chore from Thursday), and scrapbooking from 2:00-4:00 in the afternoon. Thankfully, my hubby got off early on Friday and took care of grocery shopping. I did complete my laundry and cleaning the master bathroom. Dusting did not happen. Scrapbooking did not take place. You guessed it, the other bathroom didn’t get cleaned either. And, while I am on the subject of cleaning that bathroom, I am removing it as a task for Thursdays because I have only accomplished it once since I started scheduling my time which was the very first week. It keeps getting pushed to the weekend, so that is where it will be scheduled in the future. Additionally, I spent a great deal of time researching my next movie marathon which will start tomorrow and run through the end of April (details are forthcoming). I basically fell down a rabbit hole researching movies and did not crawl out until later in the evening. Consequently, those two chores and scrapbooking have been added to today’s schedule.

I know you are probably thinking, dear reader, what’s the big deal? In the grand scheme of things, it’s not a big deal. Be that it may, it IS a huge deal to me. While not receiving the musical was clearly out of my control, spending an additional two and half hours on my blogging course was definitely within my control. I could have easily honored the time on my schedule (work 6:30-8:30 a.m. on the blogging course), completed by chores, gone back to my blogging course until 2:00 p.m., spent two hours scrapbooking, and then fallen down the movie marathon rabbit hole. Honor the time on the schedule. Now that I have been schooled, it is time for me to schedule my upcoming week.

Two more weeks until Daylight Saving Time and currently experiencing warmer temps has gotten me super excited. More daylight in the evenings and warmer weather is a gamechanger for me. How about you? Enjoy the remainder of the weekend. Happiness!

“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.” ~ Maya Angelou

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Sunshiny Sunday Morning

Today is the last day of my vacation. Despite being gloomy and wintery for a good portion of my week off from work, it was pleasant being at home. The inclement weather easily swayed me to slow down and recharge. My hubby and I basically hibernated in front of the fireplace until Thursday. I scrapbooked one of the days, read a bunch every day, napped, and watched a couple of musicals.

The time off made me realize that I needed to adjust one of my goals (#6 Declutter and organize each room in my house.). The first quarter of the year is always difficult for me with lack of sunlight and colder temps. It makes me lethargic, and I generally shut down when it gets dark in the evening. I should have known better, especially with my weekly commitment with RCIA including a number of weekend commitments in March. Additionally, I was chosen to participate in Laura Vanderkam’s Tranquility by Tuesday Project which started on Wednesday. Both RCIA and Vanderkam’s project are worthwhile commitments that will end by mid-April. Therefore, decluttering and organizing each room in my house will be put on the back burner until that time. Of course, this does not mean that I cannot declutter if the mood strikes me. However, I’m giving myself permission to back off on that one goal temporarily. It’s purely a mental thing for me.

Only one week left in February, dear reader. Daylight Saving Time is three weeks away with the beginning of spring right on its heels. Hopefully, warmer weather will arrive soon. In the meantime, I will continue refining my habits, meeting my daily and monthly goals, and investing my time wisely. Happiness!

 “Be practical as well as generous in your ideals. Keep your eyes on the stars, but remember to keep your feet on the ground.” ~ Theodore Roosevelt

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On Saturday morning, I finished reading Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear (#11 on my 21 for 2021 list). Terrific book! If anyone wants to develop good habits or break bad habits, I highly recommend this book. James Clear gives practical ways with readily comprehensible steps to build better habits and provides helpful resources.

If you’re having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn’t you. The problem is your system. Bad habits repeat themselves again and again not because you don’t want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change…Atomic habits are little habits that are part of a larger system and are the building blocks of remarkable results.

James Clear

One important idea from this book that has resonated with me is the difference between outcome-based habits and identity-based habits. Instead of asking myself what I want to achieve, I need to ask myself who I wish to become. This makes a huge difference. Instead of saying “I want to be amazing at managing my time so I can accomplish my goals,” I need to say “I want to become an amazing time manager which will allow me to reach my goals.” Easier said than done, right? Wrong! According to Clear, “the process only takes two simple steps: decide the person you want to be and prove it to yourself with small wins” (39).

Therefore, I’ve read the book, been given the tools to reshape my habits, and now it is time for me to do the work. My first task is to make a list of my daily habits and rate them as good, bad, or neutral. Thankfully, Clear provides free resources on his website, so I was able to get a template to create my own Habits Scorecard. I will be working on this task throughout the week.

Analyzing my habits goes hand in hand with time management. The key to being a good time manager is being efficient and effective. One observation that I have made in the past couple of weeks concerning my morning routine is the impact the order of my habits has on my overall time in the morning. I wake up at 4:30 every morning (Monday-Friday); however, there are some mornings I am struggling to get out the door on time while other mornings I have 15 minutes to spare. One contributing factor is when I take care of my fur babies. If I can use the first 10 minutes of my morning getting myself moving (going to the bathroom, taking my medicine, brewing my coffee, starting my breakfast), I will be much more effective with my time than if I start my morning taking the dogs out and feeding Puar. While the dogs are eating, I can unload the dishwasher, cut Andrew’s strawberries, and transfer laundry from the washer to the dryer (if applicable). A further factor is getting dressed for work. Instead of my clothes being in one central location (my closet), they are in different locations, requiring extra time to gather everything. Of course, my untidy closet is the culprit. Well, in all honesty, I am the culprit for keeping my closet untidy. Another factor that plays a part is what I decide to bring for lunch. My lunch decision determines the time it takes to prepare it. Putting together a salad (especially if you have to wash the lettuce) takes longer than making a sandwich which takes longer to make than grabbing already packaged leftovers. All of these factors can be adjusted quite easily. Making a few adjustments to my morning routine will be another task I will be undertaking this week.

I will continue to schedule my time, dear reader. Overall, it is working. The two areas that I struggled with this week were housekeeping tasks and my decluttering project. I did not declutter the office at all this week and do not see it even happening today since I will be using the time to catch up on chores that were not done during the week. I was able to keep up with laundry and cooking. I swept instead of vacuuming. My hubby is taking care of the grocery shopping this morning. I had the opportunity to proctor the ACT test at SLU yesterday morning and make some extra money, so I did not get to work on my blogging course or my scheduled chores. I could have done them when I got home at 1:00; however, I wanted to get some financial stuff done and finish writing out my Valentine cards. The remainder of the afternoon/evening was spent with family.

Obviously, the world did not end because I did not complete everything on my schedule for this week. Clearly, it is more satisfying when everything is accomplished and runs smoothly. Except, I am incapable of controlling unexpected situations (gastro distress, for example). I could have turned down the proctoring job; however, that would have been silly considering my schedule on Saturday could easily be adjusted to take advantage of making some extra money. The bottom line, dear reader, is about making good choices that enhance a richer and more joyful life, one worth living. Happiness!

“Time magnifies the margin between success and failure. It will multiply whatever you feed it. Good habits make time your ally. Bad habits make time your enemy.” ~ James Clear

Schedule: Week 3

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